castielconstantinewithsavage:

winchesterdelight:

castielconstantinewithsavage:

winchesterdelight:

winchesterdelight:

I’m super excited for Constantine but I just…I’m still really upset they’re not making him bisexual. Like, the smoking thing I can almost understand, but someone’s sexuality is a HUGE part of who they are. You can’t just forget about it. And it doesn’t even have to be a…

See, none of that is reassuring to me. It seems like they’re saying “maybe we’ll get to it eventually.” And it’s really not something they need to make a plot line around. Really, they’re acting like it would be this incredibly taxing thing to include, but it’s not.

But we don’t know if that is what they’re saying. Which is why I said don’t be TOO worried because they might do it like how the comics did it with vague mentions, or they just confirm it here that he IS bi but won’t say he is on the show.

We’ll just have to wait and see.

But is that really the same thing, though?  Saying someone is something but then never showing it is kind of cheating people, in my opinion.  It sounds like they got a lot of backlash for initially saying he wasn’t going to be bi, but then said he might be just to calm things down.  It very well could be that they decide to delve into it, but I’m just saying, what I see right now is not reassuring.

Then that begs the question; would people want him to say he’s bi on tv to justify that the character is indeed bi? Because if so,the rest of the people will quickly forget he’s bi like in the comics. And since the producers are really following the comics, it wouldn’t be surprising if down the line (if Constantine last that long) the viewers forgot all about him being bi since he only ever really said it once. Not only that, but if he did say he was bi, the media would probably skip right past that since the media always does that to people who are bi.

But it really depends. Constantine is getting more attention then Hellblazer comics now and with more viewers watching, then that could change things. But if it does, I hope no one expects him to roll around in bed with men and women all the time because that’s not what the show will be about.

But considering the producers did acknowledge him as bi, then he IS bi whether he says it on television or not.

to be honest, yes. yes i would want him to say he’s bi on tv just to acknowledge that the character is indeed bi. i’d want that very much. people may have forgotten that he’s bi quite quickly when reading the comics, but i can tell you who wouldn’t, and didn’t, forget: actual bisexuals. i cling to this panel:

i actually cried when i first read it. 

this is an issue of representation and the people it would matter to aren’t the media or non-bisexual fans, it’s the group that is finally getting represented, a group which will assuredly not forget john constantine’s bisexuality, a group which knows that word of god is not good enough to count as representation. i don’t give a fuck if the showrunner says he’s bi. i want it in the show. 

so yes. it’s very important to me that one of my all time favourite characters is depicted as the same sexuality as me. i’ve seen practically no other bi characters in the media, and i’d like one of the few i have seen to remain that way, and from what i’ve seen, i haven’t got confirmation yet.

well i went to the monosexism tag to seek some refuge from a frankly awful conversation with my mother

(she was warning me from invading other people’s safe spaces with my ‘tourism’ -actual word used- because bisexuality is apparently not queer enough to want support and an escape from heteronormativity god the more i think about that exchange the more it hurts)

and let me tell you i am not in the fucking mood to have one of my only safe spaces invaded by people who seem determined to misunderstand the application of the term as if it were the only ‘ism’ to ever be problematic and too wide an umbrella.

just non-monosexual things: every time you bring up your sexual/romantic orientation or specific type of oppression you just ‘poof’ out of existence.

i’m just so fucking tired of feeling uncomfortable everywhere because of this. i’m so tired of everyone else presuming to know more about me than me. it just really shitting sucks okay.

i wanna go to pride. i wanna join a LGBT+ rights group. i wanna not be looked at like a piece of meat by straight guys. i want straight girls to not think ‘wait. does she fancy me?’ when i mention that i’m bi. i want to be confident when i mention my sexuality instead of masking it with jokes and an offhand comment. i want people to offer their support when i come out instead of mentioning their desire to ‘experiment’.

but i’m too fucking scared.

and that fear? that fear is the result of monosexism.